Do you think she suspects something?” the boy asked.<\/p>\n
“I think so,” his sister replied.<\/p>\n
Then he took off his shirt.<\/p>\n
Through the cracked door, I saw his back covered in scars and angry red patches.<\/p>\n
I assumed someone had abused him.<\/p>\n
The next morning, I gently asked what had happened.<\/p>\n
“It’s my skin,” he whispered. “I have an autoimmune condition.”<\/p>\n
He explained that his mother had stopped taking him to doctors after becoming convinced that his medication was harming him. His condition had worsened badly, and he and his sister had run away hoping to reach a hospital.<\/p>\n
I called an ambulance.<\/p>\n
At the hospital, doctors discovered he was dehydrated, his condition had severely flared, and some lesions were at risk of infection.<\/p>\n
Child welfare became involved.<\/p>\n
His mother eventually admitted she had believed she was protecting him.<\/p>\n
But love doesn’t make every decision safe.<\/p>\n
Months later, Ben called me.<\/p>\n
“Mom came to my appointment,” he said.<\/p>\n
“That’s good.”<\/p>\n
“She asked nine questions.”<\/p>\n
I laughed.<\/p>\n
Then he quietly added, “Thanks for calling the ambulance.”<\/p>\n
“You don’t have to thank me.”<\/p>\n
“I told you not to.”<\/p>\n
“I remember.”<\/p>\n
There was a pause.<\/p>\n
Then he said, “Good.”<\/p>\n
Sometimes helping a child means doing the one thing they’re begging you not to do.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Do you think she suspects something?” the boy asked. “I think so,” his sister replied. Then he took off his shirt. Through the cracked door, I saw his back covered in scars and angry red patches. I assumed someone had abused him. The next morning, I gently asked what had happened. “It’s my skin,” he…<\/p>\n