My mom had suffered from back pain for decades, so at 70 she finally chose breast reduction surgery. She wasn’t trying to look younger\u2014she simply wanted to live without constant pain.<\/p>\n
The surgery went well.<\/p>\n
But when I brought her home, she immediately noticed something strange.<\/p>\n
Every mirror in her bedroom had been removed.<\/p>\n
\u201cBrad, what did you do?\u201d<\/p>\n
Dad looked terrified.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s not the swelling,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n
Then he revealed that the surgeon had called while Mom was asleep. He opened an old shoebox containing a photograph of Mom\u2019s mother, who had survived a mastectomy.<\/p>\n
Before Mom could understand, her sister Linda arrived, clearly knowing something was wrong.<\/p>\n
Dad finally admitted the truth.<\/p>\n
During the surgery, the doctor had found a firm mass in the tissue removed from Mom\u2019s left breast. It had been sent to pathology.<\/p>\n
Dad had removed the mirrors because he was afraid Mom would see the swelling and immediately think about what happened to her mother.<\/p>\n
But Mom was angry.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou can\u2019t protect me from being scared. Be scared with<\/strong> me.\u201d<\/p>\n She demanded the mirror back and called the surgeon herself.<\/p>\n Four days later, the phone rang.<\/p>\n The mass was benign<\/strong>.<\/p>\n That evening, Dad put every mirror back.<\/p>\n Mom placed the old photograph beside her vanity mirror.<\/p>\n The picture hadn’t changed.<\/p>\n But what it meant to her had.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" My mom had suffered from back pain for decades, so at 70 she finally chose breast reduction surgery. She wasn’t trying to look younger\u2014she simply wanted to live without constant pain. The surgery went well. But when I brought her home, she immediately noticed something strange. Every mirror in her bedroom had been removed. \u201cBrad,…<\/p>\n