{"id":7444,"date":"2025-08-19T17:27:44","date_gmt":"2025-08-19T17:27:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/albotips.com\/?p=7444"},"modified":"2025-08-19T17:27:44","modified_gmt":"2025-08-19T17:27:44","slug":"my-entitled-roommate-ditched-rent-for-her-boyfriend-left-her-stuff-and-ghosted-me-so-i-made-my-own-plans-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/albotips.com\/?p=7444","title":{"rendered":"My Entitled Roommate Ditched Rent for Her Boyfriend, Left Her Stuff, and Ghosted Me \u2013 So I Made My Own Plans"},"content":{"rendered":"<p data-start=\"108\" data-end=\"338\">When my roommate Milly vanished overnight to move in with her boyfriend, I assumed she\u2019d at least handle the rent like an adult. Two months later, she showed up pounding on my door, screaming about changed locks and missing stuff.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"340\" data-end=\"662\">When I first moved in, the landlord said they needed one more roommate\u2014enter Milly. I was relieved. Living alone seemed scary, and she seemed sweet at first\u2014asking about my day, watching movies together. But she never bought basics like toilet paper or detergent. She&#8217;d use my things and promise to replace them\u2014never did.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"664\" data-end=\"929\">Rent was the same story. Always late, always promising next week, and always playing the &#8220;we\u2019re friends&#8221; guilt card. Dishes piled up, trash overflowed, and I was the only one cleaning. I tried talking to her, and she&#8217;d nod and say she&#8217;d improve\u2014but nothing changed.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"931\" data-end=\"1206\">Then, once our lease went month-to-month, Milly disappeared. No warning, just gone. I later found out she\u2019d moved in with her boyfriend. I was left covering all the rent. When I finally texted her, she replied, \u201cWell, I\u2019m not living there, so why should I pay?\u201d Then\u2014silence.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1208\" data-end=\"1427\">I worked extra shifts, drained my savings, and still heard nothing. Even her mom brushed me off. By July, I\u2019d had enough. I texted Milly a final warning: respond by the 1st or I\u2019d assume she was gone for good. No reply.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1429\" data-end=\"1612\">So, with help from friends, I packed up her things\u2014donated the basic stuff and saved what looked sentimental. The landlord changed the locks. Milly was off the lease, and it was done.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1614\" data-end=\"1630\">Or so I thought.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"1632\" data-end=\"2003\">Three days later, she came back, screaming about the locks. I calmly told her she hadn\u2019t lived there\u2014or paid rent\u2014in two months. She broke down, sobbing about nowhere to go, begging for clothes and a shower. I told her what was left was in the closet. She flipped when she realized her grandma\u2019s wedding dress was gone\u2014hidden in an unmarked, dusty box I thought was junk.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2005\" data-end=\"2139\">She exploded\u2014screaming, threatening police and lawsuits. But I stayed calm. I had everything documented. Her silence had consequences.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2141\" data-end=\"2258\">She left screaming, \u201cThis isn\u2019t over!\u201d But it was. She ghosted me, not the other way around. I just made it official.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When my roommate Milly vanished overnight to move in with her boyfriend, I assumed she\u2019d at least handle the rent like an adult. Two months later, she showed up pounding on my door, screaming about changed locks and missing stuff. When I first moved in, the landlord said they needed one more roommate\u2014enter Milly. 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