An Australian sexuality educator, Deanne Carson, sparked online debate by suggesting parents ask babies for permission before changing their diapers. Carson argues that a “culture of consent” should begin at birth, promoting respect for a child’s body and autonomy. She emphasizes narrating actions like “I’m going to change your diaper now, is that okay?” and observing body language to establish early communication.
Critics, however, argue that infants are too young to understand consent, with some calling it “lefty lunacy” and others mocking Carson’s approach. Supporters defend her, saying it encourages respect and communication with children.
While the debate continues, many agree on the importance of being mindful and communicative with infants, though opinions differ on the necessity of formal consent. Ultimately, it may come down to personal parenting styles.