They thought I was just a sweet old lady with one foot in the grave. But when I overheard my own kids picking out my headstone and joking about my inheritance, I decided it was time to remind them: kindness isn’t weakness.
I’m Martha, 74 years old, mother of three, and grandmother of seven. I gave my all raising my kids—every birthday, every scraped knee, every sacrifice. My husband Harold and I worked hard to give them a better life, even put them all through college.
But after Harold passed, and a couple of falls landed me in a nursing home, they vanished. Calls stopped. Visits were rare. Until my health declined—and suddenly they reappeared, all smiles and concern. Why? My money.
One day, I accidentally overheard them planning my burial, arguing about who’d front the cost of the monument… while laughing. That night, I cried. Then I got up.
I bounced back fast. Called my lawyer. Called a meeting.
They all showed up, thinking I was dividing the inheritance. And I did—one dollar each. The rest? Donated. House sold. Money given to causes that mattered to me and Harold. I kept just enough for a caretaker—and a trip to the Grand Canyon.
They were stunned. I told them: I heard what you said. I raised you with love. But I won’t be buried while I’m still breathing.
Next month, I leave for the Grand Canyon. After that? Paris.
Life’s too short to wait for a headstone.