Society often pressures people about having children, and those who choose not to must justify their decision. Yet when couples perceived as “different” decide to become parents, opinions shift.
Over 20 years ago, Patti White from California learned her daughter Lisa, who has Down syndrome, was pregnant. Lisa, 29, lived independently, worked full-time, and had a healthy relationship with a man who also had Down syndrome—despite many being told it was unlikely they could have a child.
Lisa’s pregnancy was high-risk, and she faced criticism and doubts about her ability to be a mother. Supported by her family, she attended childbirth classes, managed typical pregnancy challenges, and gave birth to her son Nic four weeks early. Like his parents, Nic has Down syndrome.
Nic’s father passed away when he was five, leaving Lisa and Patti to raise him. Despite losing touch with some friends due to judgment, Lisa and Patti provided a loving environment. Today, Nic, 24, is a thriving college graduate who credits his mother and grandmother for his life and love.
Patti proudly shared in 2016: Lisa and Nic have overcome the odds, built a small but happy family, and share tremendous love, showing that parenthood is possible regardless of expectations or societal judgment.
