An Australian “sexuality educator,” Deanne Carson, sparked controversy online by suggesting parents should ask babies for consent before changing diapers. She argues that a “culture of consent” should begin at birth, aiming to teach respect and boundaries early—even if babies can’t respond verbally.
Carson encourages parents to pause, make eye contact, and read body language, promoting two-way communication and bodily autonomy from infancy. She clarifies it’s not about getting a literal “yes” but modeling respect.
Critics dismissed the idea as impractical and extreme. Commentators called it “lefty lunacy” and “bizarre,” arguing babies can’t grasp consent. Social media users mocked Carson, suggesting the real issue is simply responding to a baby’s discomfort.
Still, some defended her, saying the idea promotes respectful parenting, even if her example was poorly chosen. Others felt Carson’s message was overshadowed by its execution.
While divisive, the debate highlights evolving parenting norms, with some embracing the idea as part of a mindful, communicative approach to child-rearing.